Read this bit in a Blog for Rural America piece on inclusion
"In some rural communities, a person who is not from the community
but has been living in the community for 20 years may even be seen as an
Rang true--remember when my sister was arranging pallbearers for my dad's funeral--she referred to one of the men as a "newcomer", by which she meant his family had only been living in the community for roughly 13 years.
Some dimensions: rural cultures can be slow to welcome newcomers. And rural cultures can see people leave, like me.